Mindful Divorce/
Life After Divorce:
A New Life ...
A New You
Crisis = Opportunity
Mindful Suffering is Finite;
Mindless suffering can last until the day we die
Mindful Divorce/
Life After Divorce:
A New Life ...
A New You
Crisis = Opportunity
Mindful Suffering is Finite;
Mindless suffering can last until the day we die
•UNDO THE YUCK:
Anger,
hurt,
blame,
betrayal,
resentment
guilt
•UNSTICK THE STUCK
Fear of the future
Feelings of failure
Confusion
Depression
•OUT OF THE MUCK:
Transform your Inner Critic to Self-Love
Learn how to “Love your enemy” ( and that doesn’t mean have them over to dinner)
Let go, let go, let go, and laugh again
chriselms@vom.com
360-317-4773,
call for free 20 minute consultation
•JOYOUSLY MOVE INTO YOUR NEW LIFE
Communicate from the New You
Clarify and Happify Your LIFE PURPOSE
Move younger, feel great in your body (see below)
Live in the NOW
Thrive in the NEW
Connect to Nature
Create the life you were MEANT TO LIVE

• Fun
• Help you feel younger than you have in years
• Make you smarter
•Radically improve Mindfulness and the Joy of Now
•Help you love your body more
•Help you love being alive more
• Undo physical pain and stress
• Counteract depression, worry, and “stuckness”
• Reconnect you with a “childlike” sense of wonder, discovery and delight
• Give energy to your awakening dreams and desires

•In “finished” relationship, you are really clear, when you can think about these and smile:
1) Any mistakes the other made
2) Any mistakes you made
3) Any “loss” of what “could have been”
4) Any buying into you or your “friends’” stories about how unfair / tough/ “bad” this other person was
•This is setting the bar HIGH. THIS WORK IS ABOUT MINDFULNESS, ENLIGHTENMENT, BEING AWAKE TO EACH AND EVERY MOMENT
chriselms@vom.com
360-317-4773,
call for free 20 minute consultation
•WITHOUT FORGIVENESS, YOU ALMOST SURELY WILL DEVELOP DIS-EASE,
AS WELL AS POISON ALL FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS,
INCLUDING LOVING/ FORGIVING YOURSELF
•PS, the forgiveness you will learn is not “goody, goody;”
it’s pure selfishness of stopping the pain of unforgiving;

Crisis
is the same as that for
Opportunity
Most lives in contemporary society are mere shadow lives, played
out behind a SOCIAL MASK, squelched by CONDITIONING,
and riddled by PARALYZING FEAR OF DISAPPROVAL,
that reaches into our every movement,
thought,
feeling, & even
spiritual aspiration.
We do our old patterns so much, it is as if they do us.
We feel bad. We suffer. We feel guilt and shame and confusion.
We blame ourselves. We feel like “failures.”
We worry about our children, and the effect on them.
We are unclear about who we really are.
THE BOTTOM HAS SEEMINGLY FALLEN OUT AND WE DON’T KNOW WHO WE REALLY ARE.
GREAT. SUPER. THIS IS OPPORTUNITY.
Times of breakdown are among the few in our life when we can “GO BACK TO ZERO”
and
reconstruct ourselves as we really are,
and really wish to be,
and are really

Chris Elms, M.A.
1201 B Marshall Lane, Austin, TX 78703
360-317-4773,
call for free 20 minute consultation
Are you suffering from a present or past
Divorce, Separation
or other

Are you willing to heal and live in
The Joy of Mindfulness &
the Joy of Divorce-ing
your Suffering?

Almost all emotional suffering is relational.
It can be transformed,
much more rapidly than you might imagine.
Release and Transform
Pain is inevitable.
Suffering is optional.
“Enlightenment in Action” is the way in and the way out.